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Sunday, February 26, 2012

Being a Mom

I was reading Mommy Fleur's blog from her first ever post and one of the entries struck me right into the middle of my heart that I had to ask for permission and repost.


Dear friends, mommies, daddies, everyone, read this:

Being a Mom
We are sitting at lunch one day when my daughter casually mentions that she and her husband are thinking of “starting a family.”
“We’re taking a survey,” she says half-joking. “Do you think I should have a baby?”
“It will change your life,” I say, carefully keeping my tone neutral.
“I know,” she says, “no more sleeping in on weekends, no more spontaneous vacations.” 
But that is not what I meant at all. I look at my daughter, trying to decide what to tell her. I want her to know what she will never learn in childbirth classes. 
I want to tell her that the physical wounds of child bearing will heal, but becoming a mother will leave her with an emotional wound so raw that she will forever be vulnerable. 
I consider warning her that she will never again read a newspaper without asking, “What if that had been MY child?” That every plane crash, every house fire will haunt her. That when she sees pictures of starving children, she will wonder if anything could be worse than watching your child die. 
I look at her carefully manicured nails and stylish suit and think that no matter how sophisticated she is, becoming a mother will reduce her to the primitive level of a bear protecting her cub. That an urgent call of “Mom!” will cause her to drop a soufflĂ© or her best crystal without a moment’s hesitation. 
I feel that I should warn her that no matter how many years she has invested in her career, she will be professionally derailed by motherhood. 
She might arrange for childcare, but one day she will be going into an important business meeting and she will think of her baby’s sweet smell. She will have to use every ounce of discipline to keep from running home, just to make sure her baby is all right. 
I want my daughter to know that every day decisions will no longer be routine. That a five year old boy’s desire to go to the men’s room rather than the women’s at McDonald’s will become a major dilemma. That right there, in the midst of clattering trays and screaming children, issues of independence and gender identity will be weighed against the prospect that a child molester be lurking in that restroom. 
However decisive she may be at the office, she will second-guess herself constantly as a mother. 
Looking at my attractive daughter, I want to assure her that eventually she will shed the pounds of pregnancy, but she will never feel the same about herself. That her life, now so important, will be of less value to her once she has a child. That she would give herself up in a moment to save her offspring, but will also begin to hope for more years, not to accomplish her own dreams, but to watch her child accomplish theirs. 
I want her to k now that a cesarean scar or shiny stretch marks will become badges of honor. 
My daughter’s relationship with her husband will change, but not in the way she thinks. I wish she could understand how much more you can love a man who is careful to powder the baby or who never hesitates to play with his child. I think she should know that she will fall in love with him again for reasons she would now find very unromantic. 
I wish my daughter could sense the bond she will feel with women throughout history who have tried to stop war, prejudice and drunk driving. 
I want to describe to my daughter the exhilaration of seeing your child learn to ride a bike. I want to capture for her the belly laugh of a baby who is touching the soft fur of a dog or cat for the first time. 
TRY NOT TO CRY…. 
I want her to taste the joy that is so real it actually hurts. 
My daughter’s quizzical look makes me realize that tears have formed in my eyes. “You’ll never regret it,” I finally say. Then I reached across the table, squeezed my daughter’s hand and offered a silent prayer for her, and for me, and for all the mere mortal women who stumble their way into this most wonderful of callings.

Monday, February 13, 2012

10 Looks for the Perfect Valentine's Date

Find just the right ensemble for that one special day at Unarosa


Whether you have a romantic dinner with your beau, a hot night out with your girlfriends, or a quiet get-together with your family penciled in on your calendar, there is only one thing that every woman needs on this one special day in February—a Valentine’s Day outfit that is fit for any of your plans. From playful pairings to elegant ensembles, Unarosa has put together 10 of the best looks to keep you looking poised and polished throughout any date.


A vintage-inspired frock or a polka dot ’60s number is perfect for a dinner at a kitschy restaurant, while a red-hot dress will surely turn heads at the hottest clubs in Manila. Dress up a chic jumpsuit with a bright, floppy hat for an effortlessly striking look, while pairing bright-colored shorts with a myriad of tops—from cut-out button-downs, sheer batwing blouses, to oversized knit sweaters—will be best for a more laid-back date. Whatever is on the menu, trust that Unarosa will make it easier for you to make the night even more special with these chic looks.


    
Date Night
Go from office meeting to dinner date with these red trousers, zippered top, and gray jacket
Tiered Zip Front Top (also available in gray) Php 1,290
Gray Blazer (also available in black and red) Php 2,750
Red Skinny Jeans (also available in violet, black, blue and gray) Php 1,890

  
Love Print
Don a cut-out button-down shirt and a flirty printed skirt for a fresh look
Red Cut Out Button-down Top (also available in gray, violet, yellow, black and blue) Php 1,460
Tribal Printed Skirt (also available in red) Php 1,160 

   
 Find Love
Play a little peek-a-boo with a cut-out sheer top and bright-colored shorts
White Sheer Cut--‐out Top (also available in navy blue) Php 1,160
Red Tailored Shorts (also available in beige) Php 965.00


    

 On the Dot
Don't late for your date—just finish off this polka-dot piece with a red belt
Black And White Polka-dot Dress (also available in black) Php 1,890
Red Slim Braided Belt Php 795

   

 Vintage Valentine
Let your unique personality shine in floral frock topped with statement earrings
Red Floral Button-down Dress (also available in blue) Php 1,760
Red Studded Belt Php 795

  

 Hot Date
Be the center of his attention in this red-hot number and feathered neckpiece
Red Pleated Over Lap Dress (also available in black) Php 1,890
Gold Feathered Necklace Php 835

   

 Black Valentine
The classic silhouette this floral tube top and midi skirt pairing makes can take you anywhere
Black And White Chiffon Tube Top (also available in brown) Php 965
Black Tulip Skirt (also available in violet) Php 1,590
White Braided Belt Php 795

  

 Short Story
Get ready for a fun night-out by playfully pairing a loose top with tailored shorts
Gray Knitted Top (also available in blue and red) Php 1,590
Red Tailored Shorts (also available in beige) Php 965
Studded Bracelet Php 535

 


Secret Love
Get a little mystery going in a deep-colored dress topped with a black cardigan
Red Jersey Dress (also available in gray) Php 795
Black Knitted Cover Up (also available in gray) Php 1,590
Gold Necklace Php 665
Red Braided Belt Php 795


 

French Kiss
Dress up a chic jumpsuit with a bright, floppy hat for a Parisian daydream come true
Black Jersey Jumpsuit (also available in violet) Php 1,890
Gold Tribal Necklace Php 535
Red Floppy Hat Php 835


Unarosa is located at 5/L Shangri-La Plaza, 4/L The Block, SM North Edsa, 2/L Annex II, SM Fairview, 2/L Bldg. A, SM Megamall, G/F Shoppesville, Greenhills, and L1 Marquee Mall, Pampanga.



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WBFC #7

Hi! It's time to gain followers again! I know I haven't updated my blog lately but that doesn't mean i'm abandoning my blogs--no not at all; i'm just busy. i'll have time for blogging--at least once a week for starting over then gradually when everything's settled, then i'll be blogging away *crossing my fingers*


So now I'm joining the 7th Weekend Blog Follower Caravan hosted by Life According to Me where for this week we could gain email followers/subscribers yay! 


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